Perhaps we found a way to get our children some fast cash for their needs… I was discussing with hubby before, and we came up with the final decision to request an online loan of $300 to help Buzz Lightyear, and the unused amount will be given to Longreen for his wedding savings.
It’s just a small amount, but at least we make sure that we can help a little, AND we respect their decision to be independent as well. We adore our children, we’d do anything for them, and I realize I have exaggerated some today, with my previous post… but trust me, when you are a mother, you would easily feel left apart when your kids try to exclude you from their decisions, and be ready to take any risks on their own just because they feel like a burden to their family. NO child is ever a burden, remember that!! If you think you are, you are hurting your parents and their love for you. You can be independent as much as you wish, but the lack of trust in your mother and father can make them suffer.
Beware of that, my children and others’ children: your mom and dad are there to be your friends, to listen to you and help you; they’re no monsters, and they’re not bank owners: a buck or a million, it’s never too much when it’s spent for their beloved children. Never.