Finally got the okay from the Orphanage of Iacon City to bring in Aquagear and Jeanie as my children!! Welcome to the Prime family, little ones! <3 As for that Andorian girl I mentioned on February, the Andorian Ambassade told me and hubby, this morning, that the girl is waiting for us to meet her at her house; she’s 18 years old, her name’s T’rashara, and she lives alone nearby the forest in the south area of Andor, spending her days studying and cultivating the ground around her house. She is a simple soul, conservative of her own Andorian heritage, but at the same time very open-minded and good-hearted a young woman. I can’t wait to meet her. Hubby said we should go on Monday, soon as we’re done with work and university classes, and I told him I’d do my best to free myself as soon as possible and go with him. Let’s hope everything goes smoothly and that she chooses us for her parents. Aww I wish so!

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Perhaps we found a way to get our children some fast cash for their needs… I was discussing with hubby before, and we came up with the final decision to request an online loan of $300 to help Buzz Lightyear, and the unused amount will be given to Longreen for his wedding savings.

It’s just a small amount, but at least we make sure that we can help a little, AND we respect their decision to be independent as well. We adore our children, we’d do anything for them, and I realize I have exaggerated some today, with my previous post… but trust me, when you are a mother, you would easily feel left apart when your kids try to exclude you from their decisions, and be ready to take any risks on their own just because they feel like a burden to their family. NO child is ever a burden, remember that!! If you think you are, you are hurting your parents and their love for you. You can be independent as much as you wish, but the lack of trust in your mother and father can make them suffer.

Beware of that, my children and others’ children: your mom and dad are there to be your friends, to listen to you and help you; they’re no monsters, and they’re not bank owners: a buck or a million, it’s never too much when it’s spent for their beloved children. Never.

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We want to try helping our children, Buzz and Longreen, but they won’t accept our support. Buzz feels like he’s being a burden, Longreen says he’s old enough to take financial responsibility over his wedding plans… I don’t know what to think. I might be biased by the maternal thought that children will always need you somehow, perhaps I’m just hurt by their self-restrictions… but all I want is for them to know that they can always count on their parents, even though we can’t provide the 100% of what they need. But partial help is always available, ALWAYS. Because they are our dear children.
We could ask for a cash advance to try and help them, and then we would return money little by little… but would our kids accept? I’m glad they want to be independent, but they should also understand that they’re NOT being a burden to the family; just part of it. I hope hubby and I can sort this out as soon as possible… It makes me feel a failure as a mother, somehow… and it makes me worry about my children’s future as well… *sigh*

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